I always amazes me that so many days are linked. So many days that remind me. So many bittersweet days. Today as I celebrate Mother's Day, I also remember Curtis' 25th birthday.
I was always happy to share this date. His wants for his birthday usually took over the day, but that never bothered me. After all, wasn't that what the day was about, a Mother's love?
Once again, his needs take over the day. On his birthday we travel to his grave to decorate it for the coming holiday. We raise a glass, and leave one for him. We laugh and cry. A far different birthday celebration from years ago.
But, I am still a mother. I have a beautiful daughter, a daughter in law and son in law. I have the joy of a granddaughter on the way. Life has a way of moving forward. In a way, I welcome the shared dates. I, obviously, will never forget, but they are also reminders of the wonderful gift that was Curtis.
Happy Heavenly Birthday Curtis, I am proud to be your Mother.
