"Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion!" I'm not sure what made me think of this quote from 'Steele Magnolia's the other day, but it is a line that has always struck me. To me it is a wonderful ability to think of something positive or joyful at the darkest moments of life. That moment of laughter at a time of your lowest has the ability to change your path. It doesn't take the pain away, but the shot of endorphins it gives helps to turn a downward spiral around.
We were out on the bike over the weekend when I thought of this quote. June was a great month. The golf event, wedding and last weekends Patriot Ride has placed me in on an unusual high that has lasted. Why this quote would pass my mind at this point is beyond me, but it brought up a moment when I have had this emotion.
While at the airport getting ready to head to Dover for the dignified transfer, like so many times during a dark week, I was having a moment. Suddenly I looked up as Newman walked by. I could do nothing but laugh. 'Seinfeld' was one of Curtis' favorite shows, I was even in the process of getting him the complete series of episodes. I leaned over to Dave and whispered "Newman" and had a fit of giggles.
Maybe it is our way of protecting ourselves from such deep pain. The moment that you can lighten up that dark spot does feel good, and the relief is needed. Maybe it is because I have always thought of myself as a glass half full person that I can conger up things to help me get through. Either way, it is my favorite emotion.
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